i remember
waiting for you
so foreign
so emotional
for my joy
to be their loss
and then they handed
you to me
and i was lost
surrendered
to loving you
forever
you fill
my days with laughter
you keep
me running, always
you are
my son, forever
and breathe again
it's kind of like poetry
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Friday, June 7, 2013
nine
How many? they ask
and I hold you in my mind
like a dream, like a secret prize
In the shadows of my heart
you age
through a veil, through a glass
you are alive
my daydreams keep time
losing teeth, climbing trees, sweaty sleeping blonde heads
always with me
in the shadows of my heart
And I am so rich
with my arms overflowing
laughter all around me
laughter in me
but always
hearing
the laughter beyond me
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
weeping room
every room is a weeping room
where we fight
to hope, to surrender
every room is a weeping room
even we we laugh
every room is a weeping room
shadows and angels
dreams and eternity
every room is a waiting room
for the room where there's no more weeping
where we fight
to hope, to surrender
every room is a weeping room
even we we laugh
every room is a weeping room
shadows and angels
dreams and eternity
every room is a waiting room
for the room where there's no more weeping
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
home
home
is where the heart is, they say
but my heart is in too many places
and I want to go home
but home
is broken
and here is home
here, with mine
but not wholly, not like it should be
and I know if I went
it wouldn't be the same
they wouldn't be the same
and I'd want to be home
home
is a moment I remember
a ghostly yesterday
that I think I want back
but I can't have it
home
is here, and I will be content
home is where the ache is
is where the heart is, they say
but my heart is in too many places
and I want to go home
but home
is broken
and here is home
here, with mine
but not wholly, not like it should be
and I know if I went
it wouldn't be the same
they wouldn't be the same
and I'd want to be home
home
is a moment I remember
a ghostly yesterday
that I think I want back
but I can't have it
home
is here, and I will be content
home is where the ache is
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
wait a little
it's just a breath
I know
and the scene will change
from this, with the squealing and the running
and the laughing and the sloppy baby kisses
and the never-ending dishes and the toy chaos
and the settling into bed, content to know
everyone is gathered in and asleep, mismatched pajamas and wild hair
and the sibling wars and the crying
and the closeness
and me always in the middle
the center of your little worlds
it will shift as you grow
and I will remember who I was before you
but I will miss you
crazy babies
I know
and the scene will change
from this, with the squealing and the running
and the laughing and the sloppy baby kisses
and the never-ending dishes and the toy chaos
and the settling into bed, content to know
everyone is gathered in and asleep, mismatched pajamas and wild hair
and the sibling wars and the crying
and the closeness
and me always in the middle
the center of your little worlds
it will shift as you grow
and I will remember who I was before you
but I will miss you
crazy babies
Monday, April 30, 2012
daddy/toby
he's so much like you
with his books
and his apples
crossing his feet, his stinky feet
"all of them"
he says, when asked which book is his favorite
and it's not your voice
but it is
I remember
you seeing me
celebrating me
knowing me
I'm so glad I got a boy like you
with his books
and his apples
crossing his feet, his stinky feet
"all of them"
he says, when asked which book is his favorite
and it's not your voice
but it is
I remember
you seeing me
celebrating me
knowing me
I'm so glad I got a boy like you
Sunday, April 8, 2012
for kelly
i miss my babies, you say
memories of a sterile room
and the tearing away
and i know
we got here differently
but in the end
we are mothers without our children
aching for restoration
i'm standing beside you
as the grief rolls down our faces
we are the same
and someday
i will stand beside you
for the reunion
memories of a sterile room
and the tearing away
and i know
we got here differently
but in the end
we are mothers without our children
aching for restoration
i'm standing beside you
as the grief rolls down our faces
we are the same
and someday
i will stand beside you
for the reunion
Monday, December 19, 2011
only girl
she's wearing a polka-dotted swimsuit
under
plastic pants
pink tights
a purple shirt
and a Santa Claus hat
she goes from laughing hysterically
to sobbing in the corner, humiliated
over something none of us remember
and though we try to hide it
the world revolves around her
lash-fringed eyes and pouty pink lips
oh baby, how did you get to be the queen?
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
adopting 2
also written 5/26/10, waiting for our first adoption match
You’re moving
From a dream in my heart
To a person in my hands
From an idea
To a baby
Arms and legs and twinkling eyes
I’m starting to believe
I will love you
Even more than the hope of you
And as I lift you
From your basket
We become a family
adopting 1
written 5/26/10, waiting for our first adoption match
Today
You are safe, nestled in your mother’s womb
She will give you life
Because of love
You are a survivor
Your generation is decimated
An empty crib, an empty crib, and then you
As she lets you go
You’re falling, falling
Into the hands
Of family
You will stand
A sign in your generation
A voice for life and love
Saturday, July 30, 2011
addiction
You think
We can give you our hearts, our spleens, our blood
And somehow it won’t affect us
So you’re fine
And we’re bleeding out
And we can’t stop loving you
We try and we try
And you’re running and falling
Every day could be your last
We’re lying in bed, staring at the ceiling
Unable to sleep, wondering where you are
Hearts shattering a million times
While you smoke the rent and laugh and laugh
And you never see, you never see, you never see
The fallout
The tears that keep your boat from sinking
Are not the ones you cried
And when you’re through
And you’re cold and hungry and tired
You want a safe place to rest your head
But our shoulders are tired
From carrying the weight of your sin
Your life, your death and your pride
Sunday, June 26, 2011
birth.family.
and we all laugh
because he has your ears
and your eyes and your blood
the cord that holds us together
is him
and whether he knows or not, yet
his family is deep and wide and beautiful
for a moment
I am looking in two sets of crystal blue eyes
two dimpled chins
the same rosebud mouth I see every day, today I see on you
because he is part of you
he holds my hand
he holds all our hearts
we will always be connected
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
evan, rees, seven
seven
i remember being seven
in heaven, is it a little the same?
I'm okay, you know
not whole, because part of me is you
but okay
somedays, though, it is agony
to know just a veil separates us
brothers, blonde and strong, tumbling
just on the other side of the screen
between me and you
when I close my eyes
I can see you, almost
my sons, my babies, my boys
flesh of my flesh, spirit
I love you
Monday, April 4, 2011
Tracie
They want to know
And you want them to understand
But they can’t, not really
And you find yourself, time and time again
In the center, explaining while they cry
And you’re mad
Because it didn’t have to be this way
And it’s worth it, every minute
But it didn’t HAVE to be this way
Your heart, your eyes, your arms ache
He is rich, and alive, and so much more
And you want them to understand
But they can’t, not really
They stand on the outside, pity and admiration and fear
And you’re lonely, I know
I wish I could help
But I’m here too
I want to say
That hope doesn’t die
And love makes it worth it
And you will live through this, and grow
That every crisis will make you love him more
That there will be easy days, full of laughter
And that I understand, even if I can’t think of anything to say
And you want them to understand
But they can’t, not really
And you find yourself, time and time again
In the center, explaining while they cry
And you’re mad
Because it didn’t have to be this way
And it’s worth it, every minute
But it didn’t HAVE to be this way
Your heart, your eyes, your arms ache
He is rich, and alive, and so much more
And you want them to understand
But they can’t, not really
They stand on the outside, pity and admiration and fear
And you’re lonely, I know
I wish I could help
But I’m here too
I want to say
That hope doesn’t die
And love makes it worth it
And you will live through this, and grow
That every crisis will make you love him more
That there will be easy days, full of laughter
And that I understand, even if I can’t think of anything to say
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
transition
in between
today and tomorrow
I'm not who I am, or who I was, or who I'm becoming
here
in the middle
and I'm happy and I'm sad
and stagnant and growing
lonely and surrounded
waiting
I will miss today, when it's yesterday
so how, now, to breathe this breath?
today and tomorrow
I'm not who I am, or who I was, or who I'm becoming
here
in the middle
and I'm happy and I'm sad
and stagnant and growing
lonely and surrounded
waiting
I will miss today, when it's yesterday
so how, now, to breathe this breath?
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Rain is beautiful. I love sunshiny days, with no clouds and birds and what-not, but rainy days might be my favorite. Every rain is different. Today, it's just a little gray with a light rain, just enough to surround me here in my house of windows.
The air is cloaked in an easy melancholy, like listening to a violin play while your heart aches, just a little. Sometimes sunlight is so brash, so intrusive and overly cheerful, and you just need a break. So the sky weeps and you feel at home, just for a little while.
So I sit, still and quiet for a change, and welcome the ache. It's part of who I am, who I am made to be, and so often I chase it away with silliness. I was made for another world, for another reality.
in the dim
I see Your hand
tracing shapes in the water
dreaming for me
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Blush
Just the sound of walking
Shoes scraping against asphalt
Strollers whisking past, full of life
Overhead, behind and before us, angels sing Holy.
We are silent, because we can hear children screaming
We are silent, because their voice is denied
We are silent, because broken hearts make no sound
Hear our silent screams, you kings.
You will answer for every drop of blood.
Around us, trucks and helicopters and why, why, why, blaring from screens
“You should be ashamed” they say.
No, you should be ashamed.
Your hands are stained, and you have forgotten how to blush.
God, end abortion and send revival to America.
Shoes scraping against asphalt
Strollers whisking past, full of life
Overhead, behind and before us, angels sing Holy.
We are silent, because we can hear children screaming
We are silent, because their voice is denied
We are silent, because broken hearts make no sound
Hear our silent screams, you kings.
You will answer for every drop of blood.
Around us, trucks and helicopters and why, why, why, blaring from screens
“You should be ashamed” they say.
No, you should be ashamed.
Your hands are stained, and you have forgotten how to blush.
God, end abortion and send revival to America.
Sunday, November 1, 2009
radiant chapters (read top to bottom, bottom to top)
It’s a beginning
It’s an ending and
I don’t want to turn the page
Even though I know it will be beautiful
Friday, August 21, 2009
Oh, my friend
the world has shifted
nothing is right, and yet
it's better than I expected
I sat on the couch and waited
you bled out the pain and the guilt
I sat on the couch and waited
king's hearts were moved
I sat on the couch and waited
you walked away alone
I will sit on the couch and wait
to see you again
my precious friend
Friday, July 10, 2009
ode to the maus
oh little mouse
how happy you would be
in my trash can
full of corn dog remnants
and soggy peanut butter crackers
but you, you see nothing
smell nothing
taste nothing
nothing but the crunching death of a mousetrap
Friday, May 22, 2009
Womanhood, again
I am like Eve
guilty
cursed
and still blessed, somehow
I am like Sarai
waiting
longing
disbelieving
victorious
I am like Rachel
treasured
forgotten
barren
mother
I am like you
afraid
alone
and accepted
This breath I take has been breathed before
Nothing new under the sun
The continual groaning of humanity
to be loved
to be whole
Delayed
Hey history,
don't hold your breath
We probably won't
get it right, either
The keys are in our hands
but we're hungry, and tired
and bored
Another generation, sleeping away greatness
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Star
how you shine
a star alone in the moonlight
beauty wearing thin in the late hour
how i wish
you were inside
with your heart at rest
find peace, glimmering one
please, please find peace
a star alone in the moonlight
beauty wearing thin in the late hour
how i wish
you were inside
with your heart at rest
find peace, glimmering one
please, please find peace
brynn is changing
Saying goodbye to you
but not really
goodbye to who you are now, to me
the beauty is, I get to say hello
right away
to who you are becoming
but not really
goodbye to who you are now, to me
the beauty is, I get to say hello
right away
to who you are becoming
Monday, February 16, 2009
Brynn is two
tiny fairy
little imp
you are all that is sweet and beautiful
and fire and spark
you issue your commands
collapse on the floor in tears
scream in amazement
captivate us all
oh the daintiness
and the elegance
you are the princess
and the jewel
Happy Birthday, baby!
Thursday, December 4, 2008
waiting room
a frozen moment
when i know you are falling
and i am running, running to catch you
as you hit the ground
and i am waiting, waiting, waiting
to see if you are the same
or irreversibly broken
and i am wondering
could i have stopped you?
if my arms were longer
or if i were different....
and i am waiting, waiting
with the beeping and the blood
waiting for you to be you again
when i know you are falling
and i am running, running to catch you
as you hit the ground
and i am waiting, waiting, waiting
to see if you are the same
or irreversibly broken
and i am wondering
could i have stopped you?
if my arms were longer
or if i were different....
and i am waiting, waiting
with the beeping and the blood
waiting for you to be you again
Friday, November 7, 2008
wealth
to think
that only moments ago
i was bereft
weeping into empty hands
to think
that i am so rich
only minutes ago
i cried at the hope
of ever laughing again
i ached for the touch
of a child
and now
i ache with the joy
arms overflowing
and wide open
Monday, November 3, 2008
the Call California
i am standing in the sea
we are the waves
You are the wind
when You breathe
we move as one
wave upon wave upon wave
and the shore is eroding
we win, because You win
there's a shift in the sand
something changed
and i was a part
Saturday, September 6, 2008
tears
tonight
you weep into your pillow
i hold your hand, across the miles
fingers clasped over the ocean
the agony of shared suffering
i know i know i know
my heart is so knit
i can feel the breaking from here
the sharp longing of what should have been
you weep into your pillow
i hold your hand, across the miles
fingers clasped over the ocean
the agony of shared suffering
i know i know i know
my heart is so knit
i can feel the breaking from here
the sharp longing of what should have been
Thursday, August 21, 2008
A
and you just keep looking
you give away and sell and sell
looking
and he's not the answer
and neither was he
or he or he
and my heart is breaking
when you call me in tears
because he didn't fix you either
and you poison your blood
to forget, to remember
to kill the truth
and you call me, terrified
because death follows you
and my heart is breaking
and still you run, baby girl
in sick, bloody circles
from the only Daddy who knows
you give away and sell and sell
looking
and he's not the answer
and neither was he
or he or he
and my heart is breaking
when you call me in tears
because he didn't fix you either
and you poison your blood
to forget, to remember
to kill the truth
and you call me, terrified
because death follows you
and my heart is breaking
and still you run, baby girl
in sick, bloody circles
from the only Daddy who knows
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Peculiar
Long matted ponytail
Khakis and loafers
Chains and black fingernails
Buttons and zippers
Leather bound Bibles
and broken down satchels
Can you see them?
They’re an army of contradictions
Marching in formation
A parade of opposites
Somehow
We all love the same Man
It’s a beautiful impossibility
Khakis and loafers
Chains and black fingernails
Buttons and zippers
Leather bound Bibles
and broken down satchels
Can you see them?
They’re an army of contradictions
Marching in formation
A parade of opposites
Somehow
We all love the same Man
It’s a beautiful impossibility
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Daddy's hands
I used to take my little hand and put in on your palm if you closed your fingers my hand disappeared
I used to fold your fingers down one after another strong and worn biggest hands in the world
This morning it was raining and a tiny hand held mine opening, closing
Thanks for teaching me how
I used to fold your fingers down one after another strong and worn biggest hands in the world
This morning it was raining and a tiny hand held mine opening, closing
Thanks for teaching me how
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Grace
the thing about grace is
it's amazing
undeserved
and sufficient
what kind of God
offers absolution?
what kind of God
buys back captives?
it's enough to make
a sinner a lover
captured forever
it's amazing
undeserved
and sufficient
what kind of God
offers absolution?
what kind of God
buys back captives?
it's enough to make
a sinner a lover
captured forever
Thursday, July 17, 2008
March to DC
Weary steps
plodding, dragging
Alone with a cause
pressing toward the Mark
Two now
a little stronger
United in purpose
We are here! We are here!
A group
Weak and valiant
Voices raised
So they can hear us
An army
Weeping warriors
Broken with Your dreams
We march in cadence
A multitude
fatherless yet Fathered
watching the tide turn
as we pray
plodding, dragging
Alone with a cause
pressing toward the Mark
Two now
a little stronger
United in purpose
We are here! We are here!
A group
Weak and valiant
Voices raised
So they can hear us
An army
Weeping warriors
Broken with Your dreams
We march in cadence
A multitude
fatherless yet Fathered
watching the tide turn
as we pray
Aslan
approaching You
so much wilder than I knew
fire and light and blazing eyes
I wanted You to be cuddly
so much wilder than I knew
fire and light and blazing eyes
I wanted You to be cuddly
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Livi
Beyond the veil
you run and play
childish laughter fills the air
You are caught up
by scarred arms
and embraced, beaming
Your eyes sparkle
as you nestle deep
the safest place in the universe
You live, Livi
Just beyond the curtain
You are hidden to me
But you live
you run and play
childish laughter fills the air
You are caught up
by scarred arms
and embraced, beaming
Your eyes sparkle
as you nestle deep
the safest place in the universe
You live, Livi
Just beyond the curtain
You are hidden to me
But you live
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
for my friend
tape
or pin or stitch
a word aptly spoken
a gentle nudge
an alarmed cry
a shouted warning
this time I can't stop you
and I can't fix it
torn
bigger hands than mine
will have to put the pieces together
not how they were, never again
but new
or pin or stitch
a word aptly spoken
a gentle nudge
an alarmed cry
a shouted warning
this time I can't stop you
and I can't fix it
torn
bigger hands than mine
will have to put the pieces together
not how they were, never again
but new
Monday, April 7, 2008
the Call Alabama
There's thousands of us here
and nobody really knows why
except maybe if we join together and ask
You will come
and remove the curse from this nation
We're all badly broken
and flawed, so flawed
but maybe, if we lift You up
You'll draw us near
The sound is deafening
a multitude of hearts breaking
with Yours, for Yours
And maybe we've got it right
maybe we've got it wrong
but we can't stop asking
that much we know
and nobody really knows why
except maybe if we join together and ask
You will come
and remove the curse from this nation
We're all badly broken
and flawed, so flawed
but maybe, if we lift You up
You'll draw us near
The sound is deafening
a multitude of hearts breaking
with Yours, for Yours
And maybe we've got it right
maybe we've got it wrong
but we can't stop asking
that much we know
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
I said, You said
Condemn it, I said.
Just tear the whole thing down.
It's been wrecked beyond repair, I said.
No, no. You said.
There's beauty in these ruins.
Wait a little, You said.
The pain is too great, I said.
It will swallow me whole.
I can't see for the smoke, I said.
Look here, You said.
There's diamonds from the coals,
You will shine again, You said.
I'm beginning to see, I said.
Afraid to hope but hoping.
Maybe You can rebuild me, I said.
Just tear the whole thing down.
It's been wrecked beyond repair, I said.
No, no. You said.
There's beauty in these ruins.
Wait a little, You said.
The pain is too great, I said.
It will swallow me whole.
I can't see for the smoke, I said.
Look here, You said.
There's diamonds from the coals,
You will shine again, You said.
I'm beginning to see, I said.
Afraid to hope but hoping.
Maybe You can rebuild me, I said.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
brynn's 1st birthday
bright
smiles and blue eyes
brynn means hopeful, you know
you remind me every day
deep
my heart aches over you
tiny one, my baby girl
you bring joy
in countless ways
and you aren't even trying
you are beauty and song
we celebrate you
with kisses and nicknames
and the ocassional piledrive from a brother
feminine
your rosebud lips and dainty charm
tiny fingers and fingernails always reaching
smiles and blue eyes
brynn means hopeful, you know
you remind me every day
deep
my heart aches over you
tiny one, my baby girl
you bring joy
in countless ways
and you aren't even trying
you are beauty and song
we celebrate you
with kisses and nicknames
and the ocassional piledrive from a brother
feminine
your rosebud lips and dainty charm
tiny fingers and fingernails always reaching
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Thanksgiving
i need to have
this moment here
to see that everything has not changed
i need to know
that you, and I
are strong and happy and close
i need to hear
you laugh and laugh
and see it all the way to your eyes
i know the truth
sometimes the tears
are close behind the joy
but if we can laugh together
we'll be okay
this moment here
to see that everything has not changed
i need to know
that you, and I
are strong and happy and close
i need to hear
you laugh and laugh
and see it all the way to your eyes
i know the truth
sometimes the tears
are close behind the joy
but if we can laugh together
we'll be okay
Friday, November 9, 2007
Simple
Simple
but increasingly complicated
loving someone
and hating what they do
the wounds of a friend
Trusting
Forgetting the possibility
that all at once
the dagger could strike again
faithful
the wounds of a friend
but increasingly complicated
loving someone
and hating what they do
the wounds of a friend
Trusting
Forgetting the possibility
that all at once
the dagger could strike again
faithful
the wounds of a friend
Monday, April 30, 2007
7 years
There was this Red Supra that sped by... it only had 3 hubcaps. And the hood was burnt a little. The windows were down, but it was a lady with gray hair.
There was this denim shirt that went by. It was stretched to the maximum on the shoulders, and wrinkled where it was tucked in, one time long ago. It was some guy at the gas station.
I heard some cowboy boots and turned to look. Worn black snakeskin... massive feet. Somebody else.
A flash of silver hair, the crunch of an apple. The smell of computers. Somebody else.
And every time my heart skips a beat and I think- you! But it's somebody else.
And I guess you aren't coming back. Heaven must be pretty good.
There was this denim shirt that went by. It was stretched to the maximum on the shoulders, and wrinkled where it was tucked in, one time long ago. It was some guy at the gas station.
I heard some cowboy boots and turned to look. Worn black snakeskin... massive feet. Somebody else.
A flash of silver hair, the crunch of an apple. The smell of computers. Somebody else.
And every time my heart skips a beat and I think- you! But it's somebody else.
And I guess you aren't coming back. Heaven must be pretty good.
Friday, January 19, 2007
Brynn (in utero)
Bide a wee, lass, bide a wee
In your mother safe and warm
Though angels be spinnin their glorious tales
Bide a wee, lass, with me
I've two arms a'waitn
And a home full o' love
So bide a wee, lass, with me
In your mother safe and warm
Though angels be spinnin their glorious tales
Bide a wee, lass, with me
I've two arms a'waitn
And a home full o' love
So bide a wee, lass, with me
Tuesday, June 27, 2006
Shadow boys
Is this motherhood, this fleeting sense of ownership...
this reaching out to grip, just as it becomes a memory
this holding and releasing
This blinking, and finding
change happening before your eyes
And even when I try to hold too tightly,
they evade my grasp
shadow boys
this reaching out to grip, just as it becomes a memory
this holding and releasing
This blinking, and finding
change happening before your eyes
And even when I try to hold too tightly,
they evade my grasp
shadow boys
Monday, June 5, 2006
Happy Birthday
a wee cry
and then beeping
and then more crying
and then you awe holy....
Oh ki gosh!
and singing
and singing
and singing
and praying
and laughing
and telling Buzz what's up
on the phone
banging loudly on the piano
and singing, hands flapping
the sounds of you
what joy
Happy Birthday, Richy.
and then beeping
and then more crying
and then you awe holy....
Oh ki gosh!
and singing
and singing
and singing
and praying
and laughing
and telling Buzz what's up
on the phone
banging loudly on the piano
and singing, hands flapping
the sounds of you
what joy
Happy Birthday, Richy.
Thursday, May 18, 2006
what if
what if
I call for You
and You don't come
what if
I'm waiting
and You're busy
what if
You do come
and You don't like me
what if
You change everything
and I don't like it
what if
I try really hard
and I still can't find You
what if
everybody asks me where You are
and I don't know what to say
what if?
I call for You
and You don't come
what if
I'm waiting
and You're busy
what if
You do come
and You don't like me
what if
You change everything
and I don't like it
what if
I try really hard
and I still can't find You
what if
everybody asks me where You are
and I don't know what to say
what if?
Sunday, April 30, 2006
6 years
When you left.... I said I didn't think I would ever laugh again.
But I roared and guffawed at your memorial.
You made me this way, you bad man.
I can't sit through a wedding or a funeral
Without a wicked little dialogue in my head,
Telling me what is so funny.
I thought I would never have
That strength and stability
Home, family ever again
But there was Mama.
I thought it was over
This comedy called
Parenting adults
Seeing how rich and how funny and how strange
But Georgia
I thought no one would charm the waitress
The cashier
The guy at the drive through
And do crazy things in public
But there was Bobby
I thought I would never
Catch someone's eye in church, or a meeting
And have to look away because something is so funny
I lost my friend, I thought
But Leah
I thought we had lost
The black and silver fire
Mystery and grace
Wrapped in hilarity
But.... Calvin
I thought the shoulders were gone
Those broad shoulders to ride on
And all the tricks and teasing
But then I found my kids up there
And there was me
It's not that I don't miss you
It's just that you left so much behind
For us to enjoy
Happy homecoming, Daddy
I hope you have a G5
But I roared and guffawed at your memorial.
You made me this way, you bad man.
I can't sit through a wedding or a funeral
Without a wicked little dialogue in my head,
Telling me what is so funny.
I thought I would never have
That strength and stability
Home, family ever again
But there was Mama.
I thought it was over
This comedy called
Parenting adults
Seeing how rich and how funny and how strange
But Georgia
I thought no one would charm the waitress
The cashier
The guy at the drive through
And do crazy things in public
But there was Bobby
I thought I would never
Catch someone's eye in church, or a meeting
And have to look away because something is so funny
I lost my friend, I thought
But Leah
I thought we had lost
The black and silver fire
Mystery and grace
Wrapped in hilarity
But.... Calvin
I thought the shoulders were gone
Those broad shoulders to ride on
And all the tricks and teasing
But then I found my kids up there
And there was me
It's not that I don't miss you
It's just that you left so much behind
For us to enjoy
Happy homecoming, Daddy
I hope you have a G5
Monday, April 3, 2006
waking
I guess
this is the joy that comes in the morning
And maybe I can see again
I hope
I think
It's safe to open my arms
And welcome in the prodigals
Maybe I am somehow becoming
Whole again
I am
I find
That I can laugh again
And cry from more than grief
This ending
is a beginning
the sun is out
I see
this is the joy that comes in the morning
And maybe I can see again
I hope
I think
It's safe to open my arms
And welcome in the prodigals
Maybe I am somehow becoming
Whole again
I am
I find
That I can laugh again
And cry from more than grief
This ending
is a beginning
the sun is out
I see
Thursday, March 30, 2006
You
from a liquid room
eyes shut, body curled
I saw You
warm, surrounding
You
I saw You
sun-dappled days
grass and swingsets and books
embracing, accepting
You
I saw You
alone
brave and scared
strong and safe
You
I saw You
strings and percussion
healing
tears
transformation
rejection
heartache
big yet close
You
from a dark room
eyes shut, body curled
I saw You
fierce and unprotective
You
I saw You
tentative
angry but hoping
wild and unsafe
You
I see You
warm and surrounding
embracing, accepting
strong and safe
big yet close
fierce and unprotective
wild and unsafe
all
You
eyes shut, body curled
I saw You
warm, surrounding
You
I saw You
sun-dappled days
grass and swingsets and books
embracing, accepting
You
I saw You
alone
brave and scared
strong and safe
You
I saw You
strings and percussion
healing
tears
transformation
rejection
heartache
big yet close
You
from a dark room
eyes shut, body curled
I saw You
fierce and unprotective
You
I saw You
tentative
angry but hoping
wild and unsafe
You
I see You
warm and surrounding
embracing, accepting
strong and safe
big yet close
fierce and unprotective
wild and unsafe
all
You
Friday, January 27, 2006
childhood
there’s a somber sweetness about childhood.
i remember walking barefoot. half painted toenails carefully navigating over white broken rocks. finding treasures: a red leaf, a stream running through woods. a trail through trees to my friends house.
i remember anticipation. always, something coming.
i remember running to the ice cream truck, waiting in line. getting something, usually red. trying to keep it from running down my arms by holding it out. tangy cold sweetness. red is the color of childhood.
i remember friendship. closer than sisters for days on end. then the bitter acrimony of switching sisters. secrets on the playground. songs sung with what seemed to be great skill.
i remember running. whatever it was, i couldn’t get there fast enough. running, arms spread out to be a pegasus. running, arms tucked to make it to base. running, spinning, laughing, falling.
i remember knowing. i’ve forgotten now.
i remember being a daughter. the safety of home.
i remember cats. lazy furry curly cats.
i remember barbie. long blonde hair and carefully painted eyes. ken was always dutiful and captivated.
i remember boys. the smell of sweat always mixed with crayons and the sawdust from pencil sharpeners. knowing they were looking and finding myself talking too loud.
i remember lunches. crisp crackly brown paper bags. peanut butter sandwiches on white bread.
i remember innocence. believing in a world where evil was only in the movies, and bad guys always came clean at the end.
i remember thinking that i was the only real thing and everything else was a dream.
i remember beautiful days, grass and sunshine and puddles.
i remember thinking that in the end, everything would work out fine. i was right.
i remember walking barefoot. half painted toenails carefully navigating over white broken rocks. finding treasures: a red leaf, a stream running through woods. a trail through trees to my friends house.
i remember anticipation. always, something coming.
i remember running to the ice cream truck, waiting in line. getting something, usually red. trying to keep it from running down my arms by holding it out. tangy cold sweetness. red is the color of childhood.
i remember friendship. closer than sisters for days on end. then the bitter acrimony of switching sisters. secrets on the playground. songs sung with what seemed to be great skill.
i remember running. whatever it was, i couldn’t get there fast enough. running, arms spread out to be a pegasus. running, arms tucked to make it to base. running, spinning, laughing, falling.
i remember knowing. i’ve forgotten now.
i remember being a daughter. the safety of home.
i remember cats. lazy furry curly cats.
i remember barbie. long blonde hair and carefully painted eyes. ken was always dutiful and captivated.
i remember boys. the smell of sweat always mixed with crayons and the sawdust from pencil sharpeners. knowing they were looking and finding myself talking too loud.
i remember lunches. crisp crackly brown paper bags. peanut butter sandwiches on white bread.
i remember innocence. believing in a world where evil was only in the movies, and bad guys always came clean at the end.
i remember thinking that i was the only real thing and everything else was a dream.
i remember beautiful days, grass and sunshine and puddles.
i remember thinking that in the end, everything would work out fine. i was right.
Sunday, December 25, 2005
Sleepwalking
Waiting for Toby, 3 days before he was born
I am sleepwalking
I'm hoping that maybe
if I tiptoe softly enough
then you will come
And not just be another
sweet dream faded too soon
Maybe if I don't wake up
You will come
and be the substance
of this hope
Maybe if I don't want you too much... maybe if I close my eyes... maybe
if I sleep
Then you can come and fill my arms
and I can be at peace
I am sleepwalking
I'm hoping that maybe
if I tiptoe softly enough
then you will come
And not just be another
sweet dream faded too soon
Maybe if I don't wake up
You will come
and be the substance
of this hope
Maybe if I don't want you too much... maybe if I close my eyes... maybe
if I sleep
Then you can come and fill my arms
and I can be at peace
Sunday, November 20, 2005
ode to ctk
Today I will go to Christ the King
and sit in a hard plastic chair
I will lift my voice and sing
And admire Lindsey's hair
You may ask, would it say
My bum, if it could speak
NO! Not the hardened chairs of gray
For they will bruise the cheek!
It's true enough, I can't deny
The seats are awfully hard
So I will answer in reply
A pillow I'll bring my bum to guard
the end
and sit in a hard plastic chair
I will lift my voice and sing
And admire Lindsey's hair
You may ask, would it say
My bum, if it could speak
NO! Not the hardened chairs of gray
For they will bruise the cheek!
It's true enough, I can't deny
The seats are awfully hard
So I will answer in reply
A pillow I'll bring my bum to guard
the end
Friday, April 15, 2005
trash can
at a youth camp in Va Beach
tonight I played my keyboard
on top of a trash can
there’s something there
maybe I don’t want to know
I ate lukewarm pizza
out of a cardboard box
listened to Randy Travis
thought about myself
then the kids came
pimply laughing afraid small
trying so hard to look whole
and I remembered
why I do this
tonight I played my keyboard
on top of a trash can
there’s something there
maybe I don’t want to know
I ate lukewarm pizza
out of a cardboard box
listened to Randy Travis
thought about myself
then the kids came
pimply laughing afraid small
trying so hard to look whole
and I remembered
why I do this
Wednesday, April 6, 2005
rest
tonight
it’s quiet
for a moment
and I wonder
if maybe I’ll be ok.
if maybe the madness is past
or it never happened
and really I can handle this
last night
it stormed
and I cried
and I asked
will it ever change
will I ever be free
will I ever have joy
will I ever know what it is
I need but can’t seem to find
I don’t know
but for tonight
I can rest
it’s quiet
for a moment
and I wonder
if maybe I’ll be ok.
if maybe the madness is past
or it never happened
and really I can handle this
last night
it stormed
and I cried
and I asked
will it ever change
will I ever be free
will I ever have joy
will I ever know what it is
I need but can’t seem to find
I don’t know
but for tonight
I can rest
Sunday, April 3, 2005
Flashlight
After Evan and Rees died
in the middle of the lilies
there’s a broken body
and I realize
all is not well
I try to skip but the pavement
was destroyed in the explosion
and all the Barbies melted
I know that there is a whole place
just over there
And over there, there’s something right
But I seem stuck
all these babies are holding my feet down
where’s my flashlight?
I had it minutes ago.
I could see way down the path
I could see all the flowers
all the children
no one was sick
no one was dying
Was it a dream?
That place I lived for so long
has fragmented into a very claustrophobic cavern
I’m stuck in the universe
and nothing is quite as I thought
in the middle of the lilies
there’s a broken body
and I realize
all is not well
I try to skip but the pavement
was destroyed in the explosion
and all the Barbies melted
I know that there is a whole place
just over there
And over there, there’s something right
But I seem stuck
all these babies are holding my feet down
where’s my flashlight?
I had it minutes ago.
I could see way down the path
I could see all the flowers
all the children
no one was sick
no one was dying
Was it a dream?
That place I lived for so long
has fragmented into a very claustrophobic cavern
I’m stuck in the universe
and nothing is quite as I thought
Thursday, November 1, 2001
brokenness
written during a Night Watch... overnight prayer with the youth group
I want to revel in brokenness
to dance in brokenness
to laugh at my tears
because it feels so good
to be near to You
feels like so long
since I’ve been near You
I want to sing in brokenness
to weep tears of joy
to not be afraid
to wash Your feet with my tears
and love every minute
To be so close to You
to taste Your tears
I want to dance with You in brokenness
to hold Your hands
and dance the fear away
every step is life
I want to revel in brokenness
to dance in brokenness
to laugh at my tears
because it feels so good
to be near to You
feels like so long
since I’ve been near You
I want to sing in brokenness
to weep tears of joy
to not be afraid
to wash Your feet with my tears
and love every minute
To be so close to You
to taste Your tears
I want to dance with You in brokenness
to hold Your hands
and dance the fear away
every step is life
Thursday, May 4, 2000
daddy
after my dad died
When your heart
was glad
my heart
lived for your joy
my eyes
shone like the light in your eyes
when your heart
was grieving
my heart
plunged to your depth
my eyes
searched for the light in your eyes
when your heart
was sleeping
my heart was awake
my eyes
begged for a light in your eyes
when your heart stopped
my heart did too
my eyes
carry the light from your eyes
When your heart
was glad
my heart
lived for your joy
my eyes
shone like the light in your eyes
when your heart
was grieving
my heart
plunged to your depth
my eyes
searched for the light in your eyes
when your heart
was sleeping
my heart was awake
my eyes
begged for a light in your eyes
when your heart stopped
my heart did too
my eyes
carry the light from your eyes
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